Today I encountered the ultimate irony regarding Facebook games. If you read my first post about Facebook games you already know my stand on them. Somehow though they are impossible to escape entirely. Even when I get them mostly blocked from my page and feeds, I still run across them everywhere else on other people’s pages. I guess that’s their business though. But today was the classic irony!
If you know us, you know we invest in income producing real estate. We are always looking for our next deal to grow our business. For a couple of years we have been allowing other people to provide investment capital ( extra money) for us to use when we buy properties. We pay it back with really good interest in six months.
Now for the irony!
Today I was writing checks out to some of our investors which were the profits from their investments with us. I was also contacting them to let them know that their checks were being sent out. A couple of them are facebook friends so I thought I would just do a quick post to them them that way. I went to one friends page and had to laugh. There on his page were several posts from other friends trying to entice him into playing this game or that. They were all “Money” games. How funny is that. I posted right along with them that the profits from his investment with us was on its way in the mail. (real profits, not virtual profits).
Now I don’t know if he really plays those games or not. Maybe he just gets blitzed by them like all the rest of us do by our friends. Besides, it really doesn’t matter anyway because I know this man and know he is actually playing the real game of investing. From our experience with him I know he researches, calculates, takes reasonable risk and consistently makes a profit.
He does all the things in the real world that the gamers do in the virtual world. The difference is that at the end of the day, he’s going to take his real profits to the bank where the gamers will bank up their virtual profits in their virtual bank. Then after they’ve made all the virtual profits they can (but none that they can spend) they will head off to work to get a real paycheck.
I just found that to be Ironic!
Most of my posts involve encouraging and challenging people to pursue their dreams. I figure its time to do a little “Nuts and Bolts” of how we operate. So I’m going to show a few of the assets that make our pursuit of the dream possible. If you know us, you know we have adopted the R. Kiyosaki principle of assets. “Assets put money in your pocket whether you work or not. Liabilities take money out of your pocket whether you work or not.” We provide housing for people. Our goal is to make our places something people can feel at home in. Some examples:
When we speak of our business, this is our product. It’s clean, nice, affordable housing. To the people who live there, its home. To us, the houses are business assets. Each and every asset we add increases passive income.
Why go to the trouble of posting this? Because as we continue to build the business, the pursuit of our dreams becomes more of a reality. We offer to help others develop this same stream of income for themselves which accomplishes 2 things. It helps them develop income that’s not restricted by the job market, education, skill levels or even the general economy. Second, the bigger the group of investors, the more impact we can have in securing more assets for everyone.
Owning real estate does not fulfill our sense of purpose. Owning real estate makes the fulfillment of our purpose possible.
If you’ve ever felt challenged by any of my posts, it’s for one reason, to encourage you to pursue your dream. If you haven’t found a financial vehicle to enable that, we should talk.
Hopefully, nobody is foolish enough to think that you have complete control over your own destiny. There are always events in life that are completely beyond control that influence your life. I guess its possible to reduce some of these events. (For example, you can avoid getting caught up in most bar fights by avoiding bars in the first place. Or, you can avoid bungee jumping accidents by avoiding bungee jumping, and so on) But, you can’t avoid life, so some of the good, bad and ugly of life is going spill onto you at times unexpectedly no matter how hard you are trying to shape or “control” your own destiny. There is nothing wrong with that, it happens.
Shaping your own destiny, or maybe “directing” your own destiny, has more to do with your everyday decisions and actions. If your decisions and actions are largely in response to your current life circumstances then you’re mostly letting outside influences and circumstances control your destiny. Life will push you along the path of least resistance (which is usually in a muddy ditch and downhill) Those who choose to pursue their destiny by taking the ” I’ll take each day as it comes” approach still end up having life pushing them in a down hill direction. They generally try to resist the downhill pressure but go with the flow when life happens to push them in a positive direction. To me that still leaves too much influence to outside sources and circumstances.
I believe that a person can actively shape or direct their destiny through their decision and actions. The first step is to actually choose a destiny for yourself. One that is worth pursuing with all your heart. Then start making decisions and taking actions that move you toward that destiny. Your first decision and action won’t arrive you at your destiny. Your first decision and action may indeed be “How do I get out of this muddy ditch?” It doesn’t matter where you are at. Starting with your decision to act, then you, not your circumstances, become the one that is shaping your destiny.
If you don’t have a dream or vision of your destiny, get one. If you’ve lost your dream or vision of your destiny, find it. If you have one that’s unclear, define it. if you have one that’s clear, pursue it.
In any case, quality decisions and actions will tend to move you uphill. Indecision and inaction will tend to move you downhill.
Everybody has a reason for doing what they do. I believe that people basically fall into one of two catagories regarding this. The one category moves their way through life guided by their values, their purpose and their vision. The other group moves their way through life believing in their values, purpose and vision but guided by the way life pushes them through it. When the one group runs into an obstacle they either saw it coming and avoided it or hit it and immediately began to develop a solution for it. The other group gets pushed up against it and gets stuck there or eventually gets deflected off in one direction or the other. Both groups may be able to focus on their destiny. One group keeps an eye on their destiny but also surveys the landscape in between to create a path to get there. The other group keeps their eye on the destiny but sees the path between full of jungles, swamps and mine fields too overwhelming to blaze a trail through. One group invests in the tools to get there the other claims the price is too high. One group believes they “can” the other group wishes they “could”. One group sees the danger in the trip, the other group does too but packs a first aid kit for the journey.
One group finds a reason to go!
The other group finds a reason to stay!
I think I stumbled (un-intentionally) into a bit of a scrap today. (I think everything is okay) but it had to do with one of our favorite subjects. Being unemployed. Several of us that share the common experience of not being employed because of our investing activities try to keep each other…..sometimes encouraged and sometimes just off balance with the term; ” Here’s to being unemployed!” When things in our respective businesses are going well we use it, and when something particularly annoying happens we use it. Its a term of endearment for us.
Each of us had to find our own “right time” to pull the plug on steady employment. It doesn’t matter when it happens, its never soon enough or never long enough depending on what kind of a day you end up having on any given day. I think I’ve figured out that it takes about a year and a half to really acclimate to being unemployed. During that time you can experience a lifetime of anxiety, but its when you also experience the incredible excitement of seeing yourself reach your first real significant goal. Enough passive income to offset or replace your wage earning income. Even then, there are days you would just rather cash it all in for a steady paycheck again. (that feeling only lasts until you start thinking of your old job again)
The FACT is, none of us would trade the steady passive income from investing for a job that even paid double what our investing provides. There’s just too much of a sense of freedom that you can never leave once you’ve tasted it. The PROBLEM is, we use the term UN-employed instead of NOT employed. The difference is that one implies involuntary unemployment vs voluntary unemployment.
Whenever we hear the term “unemployed” its almost our cue to toast “Here’s To Being Unemployed!” (for better or worse depending on the day) Sorry if its offensive. We occasionally use it to challenge others to consider the option of building an investment business for themselves. Whether its something that only creates $1,000 or $2,000 per month or something that could replace their entire earned income, it makes no difference to anyone but the one it benefits. We even spend a large portion of our time helping others get started. To me, the joy of having our income secure regardless of our employment status is just TOO COOL! We would gladly share our experience and knowledge and even make opportunities available to those who are truely interested. AND If you achieve enough investment income to become “unemployed” yourself (voluntarily of course) you can still work as much as you want if thats what you want. You just get to choose what you work at and how much of it you do.
Until then…….Here’s to Being Unemployed!
Here I am, 51 years old and doing my best to acclimate to the information age. I am doing things now that weren’t in my vocabulary six months ago and weren’t even terms and words a few years ago. So, I’ve joined facebook and starting to understand that. I have struggled to create a blog and have just been challenged to upload a picture. (Thanks Cassie! lol) Finally, Got that conquered. Recently got an i-phone, still pretty much use it to make phone calls, but texting is pretty cool too! Learned to create an actual website (from templates..Is that cheating? I think not!!!!) www.crosstimberscabins.webs.com .
This old dog is constantly at the extreme limit of my capability and comprehension of technology. Still tomorrow’s another day and another opportunity for me to step into something I have no idea how to do.
Thank God theres still simple things in life like how to close a real estate deal with no money in the bank.